Indian Women are suppressed and ignored
and most neglected of the population. Only
a few are literate. Others are illiterates
or school or college dropouts. Its tragedy
how others find advantage on the weak
women. We have a ministry amongst these
women. along with gospel we give
instructions how to be a blessing to the
family spiritually and physically. We have
a plan for a Sewing Center in which we
teach the various handwork, stitches etc.
and sell the products, thereby the family
gets additional income to the family and
also enhance the dignity of women in the
society. Please pray for the various needs
of this project.
Widows Ministry
There are 35 million widows in India (1991
census) 10% of the total female population
are widows. Every fourth household in
India has a widow 50% of the widows are
over 50 years. A sample study of 1994
shows that of the 88% widow who remained
in the deceased husband's in village after
his death. Only 3% shared the same hearth
with her in-law also less than 3% widow
lived with their parents. In the age group
of over 60 years 64% are widows. Widows
pension range from Rs 100/- Rs 500/-. On a
7 state rural widows study there were only
28% widows eligible for pension; 11% were
actually receiving it.
There are approximately 20,000 war widows
in India of the 62, 65, 71 and 99
aggressions. I want to present widows in
India. It is very pathetic to see our
Indian Widows. Ladies are put down so much
they were not given much importance.
Ladies has to work like a time machines,
she has to do the all the work like
cooking, washing, take care of the
children. Men only do the office work and
gets the money. If the women become a
widow in olden days (before William Carey
came) she was thrown into fire. (This rite
in Indian culture is known as "Sati". They
use to kill them, and the children were
offered to the idols. William Carey
brought a resolution and educated people
that it is wrong to kill widows. Our
government stopped killing widows. But our
widows are not allowed to go out, they are
not supposed to bless any occasions like
marriages, birthdays, special occasions
and they should not marry again, even if
they are very young women. One of my
grandmother's sister was given for
marriage at the age of 6 years and she
went to her in-laws house at the age of 11
years. Her husband died within a year. She
became a widow at the age of twelve. She
was not allowed to go out. She is not
educated, She should not show her face in
the morning hours to any body, she has to
live all alone in the house. She cannot
come out to the society and cannot mingle
with anybody. I gave an example of the
Indian women. But nowadays very few widows
are coming out for jobs, some of them are
educated.
We have valuable programmes for the women
here. Every alternate month we have a get
together for them and as well for other
women. We give them the word and the food
too. To some we offer old clothes (Which
we collect from other women folk) and give
them blankets or bed spreads. We try to
show these widows a way for their
livelihood by teaching them a work, such
as stitching, embroidery, soft toys making
and making house hold upholstery, you see
the needs are many and resources are
meager. These widows are encouraged to
take a government test for diploma in all
the above courses so that they are
eligible for the loans given by the
government or banks. We do have a
stitching machine in the center but we
need more. We want to give each widow a
machine to make a living. They too attend
the church and blessed by the Lord. Please
pray for them.